12 Erotic Swingers Resorts: Adults only vacations!

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Adults only, Swingers Vacation resorts are the perfect travel destinations to have a thrilling & Erotic vacation.
Ideal for Sexual Adventurous couples, Hedonistic singles, nudists, curious people and even married couples, who want to inject some excitement back into their love life.
Swinger Vacation resorts have everything your standard all inclusive hotels and resorts offer, great restaurants, activities, beach, sun etc.
But you also get the added extras of quirky extras like your very own BDSM Playroom! Like Stay Play in California see further down the list for details.

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These Swinger Vacation resorts, also offer opportunities to have thrilling sex! From just in you & your partner, to exploring with other couples, new friends and who ever else you like!
Throughout the selected Vacation resorts, Public Sex, Nudity, sexy lingerie and even fetish outfits are encouraged.
Some are LGBTQ friendly while others are for straight couples only.
At these swingers resorts you don’t have be a “Swinger” or get involved in anything you don’t want to.
For some people it’s just curiosity, which makes them wan’t to check out such places…for others it’s an annual tradition.

Sometimes you can easily get carried away while on vacation! So best make sure your at an adults only resort! (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

There are also rules, to ensure respect and everyone is on the same wavelength.
At private, secluded Erotic resorts you can live out your wildest fantasies!
…let go of all your inhibitions without judgment.  
So for your enjoyment here is a list of the top 12 Swingers Vacation resorts perfect for sexually adventurous couples and curious individuals!

12. Hedonism II – Erotic Resort

Hedonism 2, is one of the most famous & well run adults only all inclusive resorts, located in Negril, Jamaica.

Although, not just for swingers but with it’s private nude beach, anything goes toga parties and the unlimited flow of Alcohol it is definitely a thrilling place.

This clothing optional resort is perfectly setup with the individual couple in mind.


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The swingers style resort is split into two sides the “Nude” side and the “Prude” side, so you have both options depending upon how your feeling.

For sexually adventurous couples, who wish to just dive right in upon arrival they can head to the resorts “Nude” side and it’s “Playroom“.

This is a real “50 Shades of Grey” room, equip with more toys & accessories than you can imagine, perfect to unlock your primal instincts.

The bed is L Shaped, with swings hanging over it and cuffs suspended by chains hanging from the ceiling.

Combine that with a few cheeky surprises and playful outfits and you will surely be erupting with enjoyment!


Great Ready for a 50 shades of grey experience at the Hedonism 2 Adults Only Swingers Resort, Romping Shop, Playroom. Photo by: (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

For those more modest couples, who wish to start slower and have a more standard vacation first, head over to the “Prude” side of the resort which has a nice hot tub and floating pool bar.

Head back over to the “Nude” side at night for the wild parties & shows, which is a great opportunity to meet new people.

A great thing is, people of all ages, body types and sizes are welcomed so you won’t feel body conscious when you look around at how relaxed everyone is.

When I visited the Erotic resort, I saw plenty of partner swapping and an array of public sex, by couples wearing sexy outfits. So, you will definitely not be the only ones feeling frisky!


Expect a social, fun and community of like minded couples at Hedonism Adults only Erotic/Swingers Resort. Photo by: (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

At Hedonism 2, they also run a variety of sexy specials events from “Laid Away” to “Fall in Lust again” and “Girlfriends Playaway” with offers & discounts on going.
With 6 on site restaurants and 5 swimming pools, you will have plenty of places to relax after a long, hard vacation
Check prices & Availability using the Link HERE

11. Rooftop Resort  – Florida, U.S.A

Located in Hollywood, South Florida.  This is a resort for “Straight swingers and wife swappers” clothing is optional, expect alot of parties.

With designated, couples only and singles areas. It’s a great place let go of your inhibitions at your own pace.

With a playroom, and night parties you will find plenty of fun entertainment at this hotel.


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Check prices & Availability using the Link HERE

10. Swingers Cruise Vacations

Whatever Floats your boat! Cruises offer a great opportunity to travel to many destinations all over world.

Swingers Cruises, offer just the same, in addition to a series of extra areas across the ship perfect for adventurous couples and those with Erotic curiosities.

With clothing optional pool decks, 50 shades of grey style play rooms, group play rooms and even all night swingers parties you won’t be short of options.


Couples only swingers cruises are the perfect opportunity to really let all your inhibitions float away. Source: (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

If you would prefer to take things a little slower, head to the pool parties and night discos to meet new friends and interesting people.

In these areas, although erotic in nature no sexual activities are allowed.

Most guests who travel on such swingers cruises are in between their 30’s to 50’s.
Be sure to check out the themed areas of the cruise where you will find, everything from Costume only, to dark rooms, dungeons and of course a ladies only area.

9. Stay & Play – Americas Kinkiest B & B

Back on land, this converted barn in Monterey, north of California is home to Stay & Play, Americas Kinkiest and most erotic B & B. A two level adult playhouse/treehouse.

Although, the B & B does not stand for Bed & Breakfast at this establishment.

It stands for Bed & Bondage a swanky lodge with a selection of leather outfits, whips, chains and an array of toys perfect for a 50 shades of Grey Enthusiast,

where “Pleasure meets comfort“.

Safe sex is also high on the agenda here, with a selection of essentials such as condoms, lube and latex gloves.


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The first floor is fully equipped with a traditional S&M dungeon, plus a bedroom suite with fluffy pillows, and soft luxurious sheets.
This great venue offers uninhibited experiences at the guests own pace.
The bathroom had as powerful double headed shower head and foot spa. Just outside the bathroom, are comfy robes and a metal play cage.
Made by Kinksters for Kinksters
The owner of Stay & Play is named Diva Montaine a small blonde woman with sparkling blue eyes.
She runs the setup with her husband Jimmie and explains how they converted the barn.
Previously used to store hay, the farm machinery was removed and various props were installed perfect with submission & domination (S&D) activities.

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Diva goes onto explain, “I am not a submissive and it does not work for me to play that role” she goes on to explain.
“In corporate America & in S&M, many equate being a dominant woman with being a stern woman. I always thought I could attract more flies with honey”.
She goes onto explain “We try to make a space which is non judgmental” suitable for S&M newbies who are just curious after reading 50 shades of grey to hard core experimenters and those who wish to live out their fantasies.
Couples are the most popular guests, followed by the odd threesome and a few larger groups.

If your a fan of 50 shades of grey then the bed & Bondage, at Stay & play is the perfect place for you. Equip with a fully fledged S&D dungeon! (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 


Stay & Play costs $300 for a weekend night and you get a $50 discount if you stay over the weekend. This price includes for use of the S&M facilities and even a home cooked breakfast in the morning. (Well it is a B & B!).

Check prices & Availability using the Link HERE

8. Hidden Beach Nudist Resort – Mexico

Located at Rivera Maya, Hidden beach is a nudist resort is a truly private, clothing optional resort with a 5 star rating in the Swingers Category.

Owned by El Dorado Resorts, this resort is both opulent and adventurous.

Make yourself Comfortable in Luxury

With on site restaurants, and all the other great amenities offered by El Dorado, this is a great resort.

Fun activities here include: hot tub parties, coconut bowling and even water balloon fights!

At Hidden Beach Nudist resort they pride themselves on upholding the naturist etiquette which means no staring, awkwardly.

A slightly tamer resort Explicit sexual behavior in the public areas is against the rules.


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“Heard many wonderful things from friends who had been three times.

We joined them and loved them. HBR has set the standard of expectations for service, friendliness, and cleanliness.
Only wish I was approached less by the massage therapists.

However, all of the staff are friendly and personable, taking the time to know your likes and dislikes very quickly.

The food and beverages were excellent. I look forward to returning next year.”  Guest From Waterbury, Connecticut. (August 2019)


“When she give you that look” Hidden Beach Resort is great for sexually adventurous couples Source: (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

“Well done staff once again and we will miss you all. This is a place that you can truly relax and enjoy your vacation while being naked.

This is our 15 visit and we are already planning another visit soon.

The new activity director, Sandy, is amazing and full of fun. Volleyball games are epic with the right group.” Guest from Oklahoma city (July 2019)

Check prices & Availability using the Link HERE

7. Spice Resort – Lanzarote, Spain

Spice Resort, is an erotic resort located in Lanzarote, part of the Spanish owned Canary Islands.
With a similar vibe to Desire Resort in Cancun, Mexico, Spice resort is an adults only, all inclusive resort.
Swinger friendly, Nudist friendly and clothing optional this venue was established in 2010 and offers exquisite foods on site…you will need the energy!

All things nice are full of spice at Spice Swingers resort & hotel. Source: spiceresort. (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

6. Couples Tower Isle – Jamaica

Located in Ocho Rios, Jamaica Couples Tower Isle is a couples only all inclusive resort popular with many Hollywood stars of the 50s.
Tower Isle is a 19 acre rocky island with breath taking panoramic views of the deep blue sea.

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Highlights include, private nude beach, swim up bars and a variety of thatched roof cabanas with great hammocks.
Although, not officially a swingers or erotic style hotel like Desire pearl it’s luxurious opulence offers the perfect romantic setting to spice up your love life.

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The large villas, offer private Plunge Pools, private sun terraces and unlimited spa treatments on site!
Check prices & Availability using the Link HERE
Insider Tip: 
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5. Temptation Resort – Cancun, Mexico

Another popular resort in Cancun, Mexico Temptation is the perfect “STARTERS” Erotic resort, perfect for those which are not ready for the full Swingers experience.

With a more tamer topless optional, rather than clothing optional, this resort offers a less intimidating and less blatant sexual resort.


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Temptation, creates a sensual, and enticing vibe which caters for all adults and not just couples only like swingers resorts such as desire.

With a nice pool and sexy themed night entertainment, this resort is definitely perfect for those who don’t wish to dive into the full swingers experience…just yet.

Insider Tip: 

Public Sex and Full nudity is against the rules, so make sure you bring some clothes!

Town & Tourist – Best Curious Couples Resort. 

Check prices & Availability using the Link HERE

4. Caliente Resort – Florida

A fully fledged nudist resort with swingers themed nights.

This Florida Resort, just north of Tampa, is a great local option with plenty of accommodation types rooms, cottages, condos & even 3-bedroom villas.

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Great fun can be had at Caliente Resort Florida, Swinger/nudist hotel. Source: (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

The Rooms all have screen in porches, lighted mirrors above the beds and some even have patios with hot tubs.

With 7 pools, a spa, nightclub and even fun daily activities like Yoga and Karaoke, this is a great local resort.


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3. Penthouse Hotel – Thailand

If you fancy heading further a field to a true, no holds barred placed the perfect location is Pattaya in Thailand.

Pattaya, Thailand is know for many erotic tendencies from Thai massage to infamous Thai ping pong shows and even ladyboys!

But most of this craziness is in the City Centre, being Thailand!

Penthouse Hotel is not a Swanky, all inclusive resort like many others on this list but it is a quirky place to check out in central Pattaya, a true hedonistic city!


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Check prices & Availability using the Link HERE

To Limber up while on vacation, check out our:  20 Life changing Yoga Retreats in Thailand

2. Sandals Royal Bahamian – Bahamas

Located in Nassau, Bahamas, Sandals Royal Bahamian is an Opulent all inclusive couples only resort.

With a swim up suite, fully stocked bar, rain head show and four poster king size bed.

This is a real romantic resort and not with the wild organised sex activities you will see at places like desire resort.

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Sandals Royal Bahamian – Bahamas. Source: (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

However, that does mean you can’t create your own private erotic adventure in high end luxury.

With 10 romantic restaurants and 8 bars, 7 outdoor pools, a spa, gym and even a private island this is a perfect romantic couples only vacation.

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Sandals Royal Bahamian – Bahamas-Adults-Only-Couples. Source: (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

Insider Tip: 

Be sure to explore the private island. And take advantage of the exclusive VIP airport transfers in a Rolls-Royce or Mercedes-Benz for butler guests.

Town & Tourist- Best Resort for Romantic Couples

Check prices & Availability using the Link HERE

1. Desire Pearl Resort & Spa – Cancun, Mexico

Desire Pearl Resort & Spa and Desire Resort & Spa are Couples only resorts located in the Riviera Maya area of Mexico.

immerse yourselves in a deliciously sensual ambiance, where inhibitions do not exist.

From your arrival, feel an explosion of sexual energy, setting the perfect backdrop for a passion provoking experience.” – Desire Resorts.

While these two resorts are nicer than Hedonism they are a little more expensive. The Desire pearl is the more high end version with a leaning towards erotic luxury.

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Desire Pearl Resort Couples Only, Swingers retreat. (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

With 88 villa-style rooms, a playroom, Jacuzzi Lounge and a series of adult entertainment. You will find plenty of frolicking activities.

One of my favorite things about desire is the onsite “Playmakers” which offer tempting daytime activities and invigorating night entertainment.


Desire Couples only resort is perfect for swinging, partner swapping and a whole host of other raunchy activities. Source: (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only). 

Unique activities include, booking your own erotic photo shoot, hiring a stripper for a private lap dance and even having your professional sex movie produced of you & your partner!

These activities can be chosen from the “Fantasy Menu” which also includes Sex on the beach.

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Live Entertainment at Desire Pearl Resort, Couples Only Swingers Hotel. Source: (Swingers Vacation Resorts/Erotic Hotels/Nudist hotels Adults only) (Couples Only) 

Majority of the time, Desire has a strict couples only policy although some weeks they have dedicated to threesomes.

Desire Resort & Spa offers more of a lively party atmosphere, while the Desire Pearl Resort offers a more sensual, higher end luxury experience.

Town & Tourist Award- Best Erotic/Swingers Resort

Check availability using the comparison tool below, Desire tends to sell out fast in peak season! 

Check prices & Availability using the Link HERE

Sexual Vacation Stories

Here are a couple of tantalizing stories which will definitely get your heart racing, mind ticking and body tickling. Making it irresistible not to book a Swingers/Erotic vacation.

Ibiza Erotica! 

Spent the summer in Ibiza, and me and another worker found a little cove, halfway down a large cliff, overlooking the bay.
Completely secluded, sun was coming up, and we had proper, passionate sex with the craziest sunrise overlooking the proper deep blue ocean.” – babyshanks via Reddit

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For a list of our recommended adults only resorts in Ibiza, check out the link HERE

Stumbled across a Nude Beach… 

I was visiting a national park in the southwestern tip of Spain called Cabo de Gata, an absolutely gorgeous area with 300-foot cliffs overlooking white beaches.
After a two-hour hike along a cliffside trail that gave an incredible view of the Mediterranean.
We found a nude beach/colony, set up a beach blanket, and hung out for awhile.

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“Seeing my beautiful girlfriend romp around naked in the azure water had me pretty hot already, and on the way back, we couldn’t keep our hands off of each other.
When our lust took over, we found a suitable rock and started going at it right on the trail.
Unfortunately, we spotted a person headed our way only a few minutes in and had to move to a more secluded spot.
We ducked behind a huge rock pile, and I went down on her while behind me, the sun set over the mountain range that jutted straight up out of the sea. I’ll never forget that image.” – YouOtterKnow via Reddit.

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